by notmarkflynn on Thu Mar 05, 2009 3:53 pm
"How are you?" is something of a platitude in the U.S. It's along the lines of saying "God bless you" when someone sneezes. I'm an agnostic, and I'm not actually blessing people when I say it, I'm trying to be polite to someone through societal conventions. So the all these "how are you?/ I'm fine, how are you?/ doing good" kind of exchanges are just a long way of saying hello with an element of concern that, whether genuine or feigned, can be ignored without any rudeness or accepted without any awkwardness.
It is kind of needlessly complex.